When we see persons of worth, we should think of equaling them; when we see persons of a contrary character, we should turn inwards and examine ourselves.

Confucius

Confucius

Profession: Philosopher
Nationality: Chinese


When we see persons of worth, we should think of equaling them; when we see persons of a contrary ch.. Confucius

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