You are the determining factor in your future. Don't let others be your judge and jury with their pity and negative thoughts or feeling. Know that you are here for a reason. Recognize, develop, and use the resources you do have. Others see the surface; you know your heart.

Zig Ziglar
Profession: Author
Nationality: American
Some suggestions for you :
Some people do really find fault like there's a reward for it.
What comes out of your mouth is determined by what goes into your mind.
You can get anything you want in this life if you help enough other people get what they want.
You can get everything in your life, if you help other people to get what they want.
Hope is the power that gives a person the confidence to step out and try.
You don't pay the price for success. You enjoy the price for success.
Sometimes adversity is what you need to face in order to become successful.