If my life has had a theme, I suppose it has been a typical American theme in that, for most of it, I have been looking for happiness and success.
You can get everything in your life, if you help other people to get what they want.
The six people who had the biggest impact on my life were all women. Had I been sexist, my life would have been far less fulfilling.
Some of us learn from other people's mistakes and the rest of us have to be other people.