Neither gods nor men can foresee when an evil deed will bear its fruit.
If you use your mind to look for a Buddha, you won't see the Buddha.
Once you see your nature, sex is basically immaterial.
If you use your mind to study reality, you won't understand either your mind or reality. If you study reality without using your mind, you'll understand both.
Once you stop clinging and let things be, you'll be free, even of birth and death. You'll transform everything.