Don't turn away from possible futures before you're certain you don't have anything to learn from them.
Every problem has a gift for you in its hands.
If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.
Same with anyone who's been flying for years and loves it still... we're part of a world we deeply love. Just as musicians feel about scores and melodies, dancers about the steps and flow of music, so we're one with the principle of flight, the magic of being aloft in the wind!
Every gift from a friend is a wish for your happiness.
It is by not always thinking of yourself, if you can manage it, that you might somehow be happy. Until you make room in your life for someone as important to you as yourself, you will always be searching and lost.