When you crop the photo, you tell a lie.
Only losers make decisions when things are bad. The time to rejig your life is the time when it's seemingly smooth.
Here's my theory about meetings and life: the three things you can't fake are erections, competence and creativity.
If you don't have a spiritual practice in place when times are good, you can't expect to suddenly develop one during a moment of crisis.
It's very strange that most people don't care if their knowledge of their family history only goes back three generations.