Anyone can find the switch after the lights are on.

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I used to take on trust a man's deeds after having listened to his words. Now having listened to a man's words I go on to observe his deeds.

To be wronged is nothing, unless you continue to remember it.

Roads were made for journeys, not destinations.

Knowing it does not compare with loving it; loving it does not compare with delighting in it.

If a man takes no thought about what is distant he will find sorrow near at hand.

The Master said, If your conduct is determined solely by considerations of profit you will arouse great resentment.

Virtue is not left to stand alone. He who practices it will have neighbors.

If I am walking with two people, both will be my teachers.

If you expect great things of yourself and demand little of others, you'll keep resentment far away.

Can there be a love which does not make demands on its object?

A scholar who loves comfort is not fit to be called a scholar.

He who speaks without modesty will find it difficult to make his words good.

He who flatters a man is his enemy. he who tells him of his faults is his maker.

Be strict with yourself but least reproachful of others and complaint is kept afar.