There should be no strife with the vanquished or the dead.
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Perhaps the day may come when we shall remember these sufferings with joy.
Perhaps even these things, one day, will be pleasing to remember.
This quote reminds me to enjoy each moment of the summer Steep thyself in a bowl of summertime.
In strife who inquires whether stratagem or courage was used?
Love begets love, love knows no rules, this is same for all.
Audentis Fortuna iuvat. (Fortune assists the bold) also Fortune favors the bold.